There are instances that help you release the negative within you and then there are instances that push you further and deeper into negativity and isolation and silence. When I write instances, that combines people, situations, events and everything around. Such instances keep you out of your comfort zone and ensure you stay out.
People often want to move out of their insecurities and go ahead with life. Here they can possibly meet two types of situations – the one that inhibits and the other that encourages. The one factor that will help you come is how eagerly you wish to move away from the dark zone. The next big factor is the immediate external environment. How? Let me explain this to you.
Solace brings peace, tranquility and calmness of mind. It brings with it the independence to decide, to conversate with your own self and do things which you could not have done in an association. You might want to just stay within your room and listen to a music piece on loop for 20 hours. Solace and isolation does not question your actions, rather it accentuates whatever your mind wishes for – the feelings, the memories, wishes, dreams and whatever else you can enlist.
It is only next to true to say that solace is the best thing a human can have, but the story does not end here. Solace brings a pint of pros and a tonne of cons too. You start to disconnect with the physical and the practical world – possibly a family out there, a few friends, a few people who would really miss your presence. So there is all the reason to move out of solace and come out living in the open. But how well or how soon you come out depends upon a multitude of factors. One wrong situation, one wrong person and all efforts dusted.
People can be toxic and might tutor you about the right way to talk, to walk, to eat and dine and nearly everything else. They might compare you with others and even degrade you to a level of being a nobody. At this particular instant, the person is left with little reasons to survive outside and there are all the chances that he or she might move back into their own secure zone. After all, people live for peace of mind and life.
Ensure, you are never the one that bullies the one infront and push them back into their darker zones.
The 11 o' clock diary 